Teaching Tip’s

Need A Handy Teaching Tool?

I”d like to call your attention to the book of “Proverbs,” one of the books of Wisdom.  It is designed as a teaching tool that gives quick, clear instruction in how to live in the best possible way.  When you know how to use this tool, you have just what you need if you keep it handy.   And, of course, you never grow too old yourself for another glance at a wise lifestyle.


Don’t try to grasp the main idea of  “Proverbs” or to even read a whole chapter at a time to get the context. “Proverbs” is different from “Corinthians” or “Joshua.”   It is intended for clear, simple instruction so it is broken down into principles that stand alone.  Sometimes several proverbs center around the same subject, but I think it is still easier to apply if we take them one-by-one.  What you want to do is to understand what the particular proverb means and then apply it to whatever you (or your children) are going through at the current time.  For instance,

“He who gathers in summer is a prudent son, but he who sleeps in harvest is a son who brings shame” (Proverbs 10:9).

Proverbs is filled with observations like this from farming or animals or creation in general. So the images are always around us…even if we live in the city.  The meaning of this proverb goes something like this.  If it is the end of summer where you live, you probably have some fruit or vegetable that is ripe. I just finished harvesting the largest mango crop of my life.   I had to get up with the sun in order to get the mangoes before the birds and squirrels bit into them.  Sleeping in would have meant the loss of what I had waited for all year.  It is plain good judgment to gather in what you have grown.  It is not anything to brag about if you lose your crop.  You look foolish.


Now to the important par, the application.  Lead your teen to look at themselves to see if they are bringing shame on themselves by their desire to sleep in. What kind of habit are they forming?  You could just shout it out with an “I told you this all along and now look, it is right here in the Bible!”  But, what you want to teach is the thinking process of seeing the wisdom in this proverb and a need for changing a habit or avoiding developing a habit of resisting work.  Don’t forget to apply it to yourself.  Perhaps you don’t grow anything.  What is the principle here?  Maybe your crop is your children.  Are you just counting the days until they are eighteen and, hopefully, out of the house?  Instead, it might be more prudent to use these last two-three years to pull together all you have taught them.  It could mean that you get up early to think about a proverb for the day so you could pass it on to them as they run out the door.

Now you pick out a proverb from chapter 10 and think it through like this.  Remember, the secret is in finding out what it means and then applying it to whatever your circumstances or attitudes are right now.  Then you will have used this tool the right way .

A good habit would be to pick out one proverb a week and think about it like this all week.






Leaning On The Everlasting Arms

Would you like some tools for improving your devotional life?  My on-line book, “Building A Devotional House”( available at www.carolbrandt.com) lists tools for applying biblical principles to how you live everyday.  These tools also stir your own emotions so that you respond in gratitude and praise to our great God.  Then your “house” becomes far more than just a theology storeroom!  Your heart will be touched.  And your children and grandchildren will profit as well. Who wants to be a cold-hearted Christian?  One of those tools is singing.


I would be very remiss if I failed to mention the importance of singing in building your devotional house.  My experience is that this is one of the most important ways to stir up the heart to love my Savior and King.  I hope you will not neglect it.

Why not put together your very own hymnbook?  Include those songs that come to your mind when you least expect and also planned ones you need to sing to strengthen your foundations.  Be sure these are doctrinally sound.  Find them from a trusted source.  Use it.  Keep it handy!

When I was growing up, we had a family hymnbook like the one we used at church.  I practiced the piano from it.  This example isn’t very spiritual, but it is funny.  We had neighbors across the street who frequently sat in front of their picture-window and “made-out” as we called kissing in those days.  I would alert the neighborhood teens by banging out “Leaning On the Everlasting Arms.”  Everyone knew to come running to watch the show!

The point is that the song still comes to my mind.  The tune and the words have served me well, not only as a good laugh, but as a true biblical principle that warms the heart to remember my security in Christ Jesus.  I still have that worn old hymnbook, and even though it is from my Arminian roots, it has served me well in building my devotional house.  Even some of the doctrinal hymns are in there as well.  Who could forget, “Holy, Holy, Holy” or ‘Praise to the Lord, the Almighty” or “Eternal Father Strong to Save”?  We sang from that songbook Sunday morning, evening, and Wednesday night.  And I banged away from it every day. What a treasure I received by learning those songs.

Nowadays it is not in vogue to use hymnbooks at church.  So I would recommend you make your own.  Try to keep it and use it from childhood to old age.  You need the tunes and the words.  John Wesley used to urge everyone to sing heartedly, learn the words, memorize the tunes.  Regretfully, melodies aren’t as prominent as they once were in the musical arrangements. Melody is important because it helps you learn the words; the beat doesn’t do that as well.

Congregational singing is very important.  We used to even sing in Sunday School with a piano available in every department.  I once taught the “old ladies class.”  They even sang together at their monthly class meetings.  It warmed my heart to listen to their voices as I prepared to teach those who knew far more than I did about the realities of God’s faithfulness to those who are called according to His purposes.  Colossians 3:16 tells us this will happen:

Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly in all wisdom: teaching and admonishing one another in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, singing with grace in your hearts to the Lord.

“Singing with grace” means that the Holy Spirit teaches us and even shows us our sins during our singing.  He uses the melodies and the biblical truths expressed through the words to stir us to wonder, awe, and repentance.  It is His unmerited favor using a “means of grace” to bring us gently along the narrow path.  He does this in our private singing and in our family singing as well as congregational singing..

Singing is also a very effective way to happily instruct your children.  Choose your songs well.  When I worked in Children’s Ministry, I put together a hymnbook for the children.  You could have a family hymnbook as well.  You want the words to be filled with sound doctrine. Avoid flippant words that reduce God to one of us and destroy any fear of Him.  Remember, fear and respect help a child to turn from his sinful habits.  Don’t use a song if the melody isn’t pretty and easy to remember.  You want them humming that melody in the night or at the park without realizing what they’re doing!  For some reason, “Holy, Holy, Holy” is one of my grandchildren’s favorite songs.  Who would think of that as a “catchy tune” for pre-schoolers?  This is, of course, a way of bringing to their minds the words that teach truth. Then Psalm 15:2;5 will be true of your child or grandchild, “He who walks blamelessly and does what is right and speaks truth in his heart” (italics mine)… “He who does these things shall never be moved.”  Singing to himself is a way for him to speak truth in his heart.

You will find that when you least expect it, you will be singing these tunes and speaking truth in your own heart as well.  When the hurricanes of life hit hard, it is really nice to stand firmly, leaning on the everlasting arms